~ friends? ~ u dont notice a friend's character flaw, until u find urself at the receiving end of it..constantly.. *sigh* i love this frend to bits..but ever since i was abt to leave the country i have been getting snide put-downs by her.. mind u, when she tells u tactless-ly, u dont feel hurt or think that it's serious... because of the way she says it and her intonation... but when i do think back or if that situation pops ups in a written mode (a.k.a chat) it makes me wonder... ALOT.. especially abt the way she treats me, and the way she claims to always be my well-wisher.. i feel sad, cos she's actually a darling...one who keeps in touch no matter what, and there are many instances that she has been there for me... but today's comment on a status of mine kinda hit a perspective on her... hmmm...i wonder if this will change... i hope for the best... adioz ~shakti~