dedicated to u resh bhai

~dedicated for u bhai~

i am actually having my exams this coming weds n thurs...

but had a bombshell thrown at me last thurs...

a frend's bro passed away after battling with stomach cancer for the past few months...

even though he was her bro, he was a frend of mine too..

after i found out the news, i couldnt think...

i was so blur...then after abit, i started thinking properly, and then i made up my mind to go to his funeral...

so, i skipped my last lecture and went back to my aprtment...

once reaching, i started to check facebook to find out more details about what happened...but there was none...only condolences from friends and family.

from then on, evrything was a blur...

-i planned to get a bus to go to kl...wasnt sure abt the time...

i called up my frends and checked if they would be able to send me to my frends place...after getting the details, i confirmed the time - 10.30pm

-boarded the bus...i reached kl at nearly 4am. my frend Cjd, fetched me frm the bus station and frm there we went hunting for my frend's house...which was much, much further away...

thankfully we found the house...i reached there at arnd 5am.

-the funeral took place at arnd 12pm...it was too heartbreaking to watch my frend trying to control her emotions...

-after the prayers and the ceremony, we all went over to the crematorium. in our hindu culture, it is a rule that the women should never go to the crematorium...however, none of us followed that rule for that day...all of us, frends n family alike...we went...

-it was only when we saw the him being cremated, we couldnt take it...and reality was hitting us like a tonne of bricks...times a zillion...

and arnd 5pm i decided to go back to the bus station and head back to my place...but at that time another fren of mine, el esquared called...and she lectured me for being crazy enough to travel nearly 14hours in a day...she made me go to nilai n stay at her fren's place...n im thankful for that...

n i too had an ulterior motive to go there...*#

so stayed put at my fren A's place...needed the damn rest...boy..was i tired....

and the next day(saturday), i woke up too late to head back to kl...

therefore, i had to stay another night in nilai...

i pity my fren A...

on sunday, i made sure i woke up early n i headed off to kl...

to go to the bus station, i had to take the bus to the ktm station, from there take the ktm to kl central..and then frm there go to pudu... but my bestie J told me to take another route which shorter n faster...

he told me to take the ktm to bdr tasik selatan..and frm there take the lrt to plaza rakyat...

made sense...

after abit, he told me to msg him at one stop before reaching bdr t.selatan...

he called me n told me that he will take me straight to pudu...that was a sweet surprise... ;)

and then we met up...had a gud talk...(although it was too short.. ;P)

bt it really made my trip...

and then frm pudu...i made my way back to my place...

i reached home at sharp 5pm...

-total exhaustion from 5hours journey-

never had i done something like this....but at this rate...i think i shall start planning some getaways ;P

i learnt quite alot over the weekend...

and i gotta thank u resh bhai...because of u i had come all the way on my own...and learnt to be pretty travel smart...i just wished that i had this kinda guts and finance back when u were alive...i swear we wud have made that lagoon trip...

anyways, this was just to update on what happened over the weekend..

and now, i shall go to study for my exam... ;P

i hope...

adioz

~shakti~

* - the 'plan' however, didnt work out...n it made me more miserable than ever...

# - more details in my other blog...